The stigma against cosmetics
The stigma against cosmetics.
Hi lightworkers! I just wanted to share some thoughts with you guys and wondering where you sit with it all. I always used to be against using cosmetics surgical & non surgical. I always thought people should just be "happy with who they are" sometimes it's deeper than that, it's easier said than done. I'm a big believer in, if you don't like something change it weather that be diet/exercise, hair/beauty, work/lifestyle so what is the difference between going to the gym and modifying your body with weights to achieve "strength, balance & definition" and getting a few fillers to achieve the same result in a facial structure depletion? People might see this as being vain and a mental thing, thinking i'm not beautiful enough or pretty enough to seek others approval, the only person I need approval from is myself. All my life I have felt like an outsider, a magnet for stigma, as a child I had a minor 'learning disability' which left me feeling like I could not achieve my dreams as I was told I didn't have the ability to and for a long time I believed that until something inside of my clicked and said a big fuck you to all those people who didn't think I could do it. It has not been an easy route and i'm still not where I would like to be but you keep pushing until you get there. I managed to study and passed my certificate in Metaphysics which has opened the road to having my business as an Energy & Spiritual Healer and Teacher which brings me to the next stigma, people laugh at me and say horrible things like i'm doing the work of the devil and you shouldn't charge money for spirituality, it's all just a bunch of hocus pocus. But I help people that is my first priority if I can change how a person looks and feels about themselves emotionally and physically and give them some relief for their pain my work is done. My third magnet for stigma is being an introvert,society deems being an introvert as wrong, weird and not normal as a majority of society are extraverts. For all three of these stigmas i've raised my vibration to not give a fuck about what people think about me, I am who I am and I finally accept myself for that. All my life I have worried about other people and put my energy into other people and what/how they think about me, the opportunity came for me to fix something that I wasn't happy with and people automatically think I don't love and accept myself for who I am.... What I did was so minute in comparison to what i've gone through in my 30 years of life. So I had a spruce up... So what!? I experienced something new and different which makes me one step ahead of most people, I have a different viewpoint on something I was totally against to start with and I still helped people, I helped amazing Doctors in training I gave up my face so they can help people who need it more than me, that is something to be thankful for. Much Love & Light H x